rental keeping room redo: part one

A while ago I told you about our “bay house” rental – a home we live in during the busy tourist season.  I’d like to share with you one of my room redos in this house, the keeping room.  **Let me emphasize this is only a rental – not our forever home – so keeping all changes simple and budget friendly was top priority.** I know many folks rent, so I thought this post would be helpful since it can be tricky knowing what to change or not change in a rental situation.

It would be an understatement to tell you this home was in dire need of a color and style intervention (ie:  a raging  pink dining room with 12 ft ceilings).  I redid the keeping room on a minimal budget.  This room was important because it’s part of our command central, the kitchen, and has one of the best water views in the house.  The house was offered to us furnished (pictured below) but we chose to bring in our own furnishings.  Here’s how the keeping room looked on our first walk through:  lemon yellow walls, red accents, blinds, plaid, dated tile floor.

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And the AFTER.

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A simple wall color change and new furniture arrangement were a HUGE help to this space.  Suddenly the room felt  much more grand, yet still cozy.  And we could finally enjoy the water view!  Note:  the rug should be bigger, but I grabbed the size that was in stock at the time for the sake of pictures.

As I was shooting the “after,” my youngest instantly appeared with his favorite cars in hand and found a spot to play…he loved the soft, chunky feel of the jute rug I picked up from Tracery Interiors.  Who says kids don’t appreciate design?!

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The natural light flooding into the room adds to the warmth of the room’s whole aesthetic.

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I had to plan this room redo carefully.  There were three main factors to consider:

1.  The budget.  It was basically vapors, so I knew I needed to work with existing pieces then add in accent pieces with interest and texture.

2.  The view.  The windows overlook the beautiful blue bay, which you can’t really see because the of light coming in and the fact that I’m not a professional photographer).  In the case where your room overlooks a view with great dimension and color (garden, big yard, pool, etc.), you have to consider that feature as existing pattern and texture in the whole room’s design –  it’s a key part of the room’s aesthetic.  If I brought in all kinds of patterns and bright colors, it would overshadow the prettiest feature in the room, which is the view.  So I decided to keep things soft and neutral to give the water view center stage.

3.  The owner.  This is always a primary consideration when  working on a rental home.  Before implementing any changes, I sent all colors to the owner for approval – knowing that they would probably say yes if I kept it neutral and classic.  I also requested to have the oak-stained kitchen cabinets professionally painted a beautiful cream, but the owner preferred to keep them stained (insert shocked face here).

A little design trick:  If you need more seating in a room, but don’t want to obstruct a view, or the room is tight on space, try using a Ghost chair for accent seating.  I bought my Ghost chair from Joss & Main a few years ago, love it.  I’ve used it in so many settings, including one year as my desk chair.  

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The big changes I made here were paint color, removal of blinds (folded and boxed them neatly so we can put them back up when we move out), new furniture arrangement, and task lighting addition (lamps).

Wall color: Benjamin Moore’s “Creamy.”  I had never worked with this color before and ended up really loving it.  I discussed  our rental house paint color palette in this previous post.

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KEEPING ROOM SOURCES:

1.  Rug, floor lamp, zebra pillows, inlay tray on ottoman:  Tracery Interiors.

2.  Sofa and arm chairs:  Pizitz  Home and Cottage.

3.  Ghost Chair:  Joss & Main.

4.  Storage ottoman and slipcover on side chair:  Ballard Designs (Ottoman here – bought it forever ago at the outlet; slipcover also from outlet, more here).

5.  Linen window treatments:  custom  made (had these many moons).

6.  Turquoise lamp, horse on table, light blue tray, and basket:  Homegoods

7.  Metal side tables and turquoise throw:  Target (from last year, but this similar side table is so mod and cute).

8.  Wooden rods, rings, and finials:  I bought an inexpensive white wood set and spray painted them bronze.  All from Home Depot.

9.  Leopard Pillows – Caroline Cole from 12 years ago – they are actually STILL available! Over here.

10.  Round table in between chairs:  so old I can’t remember.

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Next post is PART TWO of the keeping room.  You’ll see a few different looks in this room – yes I had a hard time making up my mind on a few accessory items.  I’ll share with you all the fun I had selecting the pillows from Tracery, and two different styles of hanging art on the wall behind the sofa.

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expectation reset

Let’s sit for a moment and chat.  Pour yourself a cup of coffee.

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How’s your week going?  More importantly, how are you treating yourself these days?  You know, the messages you send yourself every day.  I don’t mean texts, tweets, or emails.  I mean those inner thoughts that no one else hears.  Found this amazing quote and had to share.  Man, I LOVE this.  Read it several times to yourself.  Soak. It. Up.

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Such a great way to think about yourself.  And SO TRUE.  I love that we are each given unique gifts which truly make us original “works of art.”

As great and true as this message is, it’s not always easy to recognize our authenitic value.

If you’re anything like me, you’ve occasionally gotten sucked into the misconception that you’re not as good as the expectations you’ve assigned to a certain area or season of your life.  This trap can happen at any season.  It’s like a negative-themed surprise party and you’re the guest of honor.  I’ve certainly had my share of those moments.  When it hits, it zings you like a torpedo.  Maybe it’s an idea about some area of your life where you think you could be better – financial, academic, career, health, or something as silly as the expectation of how you think you should look in certain clothes…or a swimsuit.  I’ve found that this expectation crash usually happens when we’re at a pivotal point of working toward a goal, usually in the throws of the “drudgery” stage.  Maybe that something isn’t happening fast enough, or on the timeline you had originally planned.  And you’re getting tired, annoyed, or discouraged.  Or all of the above (once again – been there!).  It’s soooo easy to feel like giving up.  Or even worse, to direct negative thoughts toward yourself.  It’s overall a negative pit to fall into.

I’m here to tell you there are ways out of that pit and those thoughts.  It first starts with understanding and embracing the great parts about YOU, because there are many.

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If you’re struggling with a personal expectation disappointment, pause for just a moment.  Think about where you ultimately want to be, but don’t dwell on the timeline of it at all.  And don’t judge your progress, or lack thereof.  Here are a few ideas to ditch expectation judgements and help you discover your best self now.

5 WAYS TO HIT THE “EXPECTATION RESET” BUTTON

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1.  Sit down somewhere quiet with no distractions, and make a list of FIVE unique and positive things about yourself.  Then make a list of FIVE things you’re grateful for in your life right now.  Stick both lists on the mirror of your bathroom, or somewhere else visible to you.  Read these two lists aloud to yourself once a day for two weeks.

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2.  Ask yourself “are my daily actions leading me toward a quality goal that will add joy to my life?”  If the answer is yes, then have patience and continue with your actions.  If no, then stop and reevaluate.  Make a list of simple actions which help you work toward a quality goal.

3.  Do something nice for someone who needs an emotional “lift” or help.  Do this without any expectation of a certain outcome.  One of the greatest ways to get out of negative thinking is to focus on helping someone else and stop thinking about…yourself!  Did you know that when you help and/or serve another, it lowers your cortisol levels and creates a positive change in your brain chemistry?  Your brain releases endorphins when you engage in an act of helping another.

4.  Do something nurturing for yourself.  This doesn’t mean inhale a huge plate of brownies as a “treat” or buy yourself that new cashmere scarf you’ve been eyeing.  This must be an action which completely disengages you from ego-based, judging, or material thinking.  For example, one of my current challenges is limited personal time.  Since selling my horse, I no longer have that “unwind” barn time where I can go connect with my own equine and exercise weekly.  So I’ve had to make a few adjustments.  I have carved out one certain night a week where I take a ballet class that I love – it’s challenging as well as a creative outlet.  I’ve set a few personal ballet goals and have enjoyed working toward them.  This break once a week is a perfect way to nurture myself and set a few reasonable goals that help me feel like I’m adding to the quality of my life.

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My tired pins after a great class ; )

5.  Exercise.  There are millions of articles stating all the benefits of exercise, so I won’t bore you with those stats.  Bottom line:  when you exercise, you increase your brain’s “happy chemicals” and blow off stress.  Consequently, this makes you feel happier and think more clearly.  Even if you can incorporate a brisk 30 minute walk in your neighborhood three times a week, it will help you feel better and plan out the steps to hit your “expectation reset” button!

Hopefully this post will add a little lift to your week.  Remember, I’ve been there myself and can testify that the best gift you can give yourself is kindness….and encouragement!

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fall layers

Most of my days are spent teaching ballet and running from one kid’s activity to the next.  Which means my main wardrobe items consist of – prepare yourself – leggings and a top and/or leotard.  Sometimes even ballet tights and a leotard.  There is never time to go home and change, so I’ve had to adapt to a more casual look when running around after teaching.  My style is not bohemian in the least, so I’ve tried to find a look that makes me feel like I’m somewhat pulled together.  As long as I have boots in the ensemble.  For me, boots are the key.  My hair is almost always up in a bun, so it’s more of a structured vibe.  I like to think of this style as preppy transitional.

Here are some fun, fall ensembles I like for a casual, on-the-go lifestyle.

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The good news is fall is the perfect time for this easy going, layered look.  I am obsessed with cooler weather, probably because we endure heat that can melt the mascara right off your face nine months out of the year.

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And no, I never look this cool.  Take it down a few notches and throw in some under eye circles.

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The tricky part is I want to look that good (above), but feel this good (below).  Anyone else have this strange fashion predicament?

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 Keeping comfort in mind, here are a few fall layers I’m loving…

1.  This zippy cardigan.  Perfect for a busy gal on the go – great cover up for pilates, ballet, or anything to hide your derriere in leggings (which is always my objective) without looking frumpy.

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2.  Just bought this off white long cardi and lovvvvvve it – so soft and lightweight.  It covers all the right areas.  It also comes in charcoal grey, almost got that one instead.  I wore this last weekend when I was with the Joffrey Concert Group Director in from New York (more on that in another post!).

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3.  As you probably know, ponchos are ALL the rage this season.  I’m smitten with this poncho over at Deja Vu in Seaside.  Love the navy and intricate patterns.  It’s not loaded on their website yet, but you can call in or email them here to order.  Check out all their other ponchos and long cardis here.

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Yesterday, after teaching, I quickly threw it on over my ballet tights and cover up to show you what it looks like in person.  Keep in mind I’m only 5’5″, so it would obviously look different on a 5’10″ model.  The material is soft, not scratchy.  I can so see this poncho with a fun dress and tights or skinny jeans and boots during football season!  

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Had to throw this sassy image in.  Don’t you leave the house wearing strappy heels and torn jeans when running errands?  I know I do ; )

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Headed out of town for a horse show.  TGIF!!

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