unbridled confession

Ahhhh, it’s Monday.  We survived the weekend.  I say survive because with children, each weekend presents its own unique blend of adventures.  Some are just plain fun and effortless yet others are downright exhausting.  You can plan away, but you never quite know which you will get.  It’s generally a function of the combination of our activities mixed with the general mood of the house.  May sound crazy, but rearing children at times reminds me of training an energized colt or filly…while many days are good with tremendous progress, others a little more challenging and you feel as if you took five steps back from your goal.  Or you were hit by a Mac truck, ha.  I find it best to always begin and end with love.  While standing your ground.  This feat takes serious endurance….with a clever mix of wit and humor.

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Never easy.  But always worth it.

I think the hardest thing for me as a parent is standing my ground.  It’s been a real journey learning how to confidently set boundaries and not feel guilty or cave.  Interestingly enough, this issue also pops up in riding life with my horse, Savez.  Sometimes I have to bust out my tough side and get all crazy with my kids and insist, “no further discussion.”  I usually finish with “you’ll thank me when you’re 30.”  Oh how they love me.

Yes, rearing a family takes grit.  And I’m learning, just like riding with confidence, it’s not the least bit impossible.

Hats off to ALL moms and dads who, day after day, work hard to raise their family.  And to all the moms and dads who raised the generation before them.  Providing love and leadership to your children is such a privilege and gift.  And certainly makes this world a better place.

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the winner + more V-day ideas

Congrats to our Valentine’s Day winner, Anna Ferguson!  Shoot me an email, Anna, and I’ll get your pretty and pink Valentine surprise for your home right over to you.

Speaking of pink, here is a yummy sugar cookie recipe that looks super easy.  Check it out here.

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More Valentine project ideas for your week:

  1. Loved these easy and adorable DIY paper heart Valentine trees.
  2. How sassy and fun is this paint-dipped flatware idea for a romantic Valentine dinner or picnic?
  3. I adore this clever Cupid’s arrow cupcake and treat back topper free printable.
  4. Swooning over these ever-so-chic dip dyed treat bags from this blogger in Australia.
  5. This free printable has the most adorable teacher gift idea using chapstick as a gift plus five other snappy designs.
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valentine pretties + giveaway

Here’s a little list of some fun Valentine goodies I found for every type of gal on Valentine’s Day, which by-the-way I can’t believe is right around the corner!?

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DETAILS…

1.  Love this little Chevron number on sale for such a steal!

2.  Deja Vu is my go-to for fun fashion here at the beach.  I’m serious when I tell you their store is addictive!  Proceed with caution.  Their new bejeweled leather cuff totally knocks it out of the park.

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3.  Hello most adorable burlap monogrammed tote ever.  This is by another addictive boutique called Number Four Eleven.  Over here.  Shockingly only 28 bucks. LOVE!

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4.  Love this newfound eco-friendly polish by Scotch Naturals.  The logo design is so chic that I would intentially leave it out on my vanity tray just to look pretty.  They have 38 gorgeous shades.  Their classic creme red could be the perfect statement for a romantic V-day dinner.  I also love their shade, Smoky Martini, meow!  

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5.  Peter brought me home heart shaped Bavarian cream donuts from my favorite guilty pleasure resource the other day.  I thought it was so romantic!!  In my book, you can never go wrong bringing sweets to your love.

6.  I kind of cringe when I see the packs of store-made Valentine cards for kids because let’s face it, they’re not very original or pretty.  And they always come in packs of 18…yet we all know most classrooms have 20 – 25 kids.  Do they think we don’t notice we’re getting gypped?  So each year I hunt down cute free printables for my little Valentines and let them pick out fun favors somewhere like Target…then we hot glue them onto the card.  It’s actually a DIY I always look forward to doing together with my kiddos.  This year we chose these cuties.

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There are nine different card designs, in red, light blue and pink, all adorable.  You can download them free right here.

Also love this free printable Valentine Bingo game for kiddos.  Which is over here.  What a fun idea to bring in for a class game at your child’s Valentine party.

7.  I’ve blogged this one to death, but Chanel’s Rebelle is still my very favorite red lipstick!  

8.  The glassbaby candleholder, in the color “smooch,” has a lot of heart.  Over here.  Can’t believe it takes four artists to make just one of these beauties!  I have the turquoise and cashmere and love their usual soft glow…but especially love the glassbaby story and their endless charity to those battling cancer.  Founded by a three time cancer survivor, glassybaby has donated more than one million dollars to charities helping people heal.  Check out all of their 135 different colors here.  A quick glimpse of a few of their pinks and reds…

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AND FINALLY THE GIVEAWAY:

Leave a comment telling me the CRAZIEST Valentine gift you’ve ever received to enter the giveaway.   The giveaway is a surprise that will come from moi.  Hint:  it’s a little pretty item that I’m sure you will love.  

**One comment per person, please do NOT reply with your comment to me via email.  You must enter in the comment section on the blog to enter.  Thank you!  ; )

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    SeletaI‘m Seleta, a city girl living the beach life with my husband, fabulous four offspring, happy horses and frisky fur babies. A former TV personality turned Designer, I love to share the sparkly side of life. Read more here.
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